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懟/Rebuke or Refute
現在很流行「懟」的文化，於是引起我對這個字的關注，上網搜索了一下，
在《每日頭條》網頁看到這樣的解釋：
『「懟」表達的就是一方對另一方的故意找茬的行為。』
又有人說得比較正面：『小懟小進步，大懟大進步，不懟不進步。』
然而好多地方對「懟」這個字的形容包含了
責罵、批評、抨擊、責備、訓斥及反駁⋯等等，
而深究這些舉動背後所引發的情緒皆非正面的，
而「懟」這個字原意是怨恨是憎惡，
做為基督徒我們該不該互懟呢？為什麼懟呢？
責備人是出於怨恨還是出自愛心呢？值得深思。
聖經提供許多説話應對的敎訓是我們一生要學習操練的。
“多言多語難免有過； 禁止嘴唇是有智慧。” - 箴言 10:19
“義人的心，思量如何回答； 惡人的口吐出惡言。” - 箴言 15:28
“說話浮躁的，如刀刺人；
智慧人的舌頭卻為醫人的良藥。”
箴言 12:18
“驕傲只啟爭競； 聽勸言的，卻有智慧。” - 箴言 13:10
“聽從生命責備的， 必常在智慧人中。” - 箴言 15:31
“凡你們所做的都要憑愛心而做。” - 哥林多前書 16:14
The culture of "懟" （pronounce as [dui]) is very popular
among Chinese nowadays, therefore this Word has caught my attention.
I searched the internet and saw this explanation
on the "Everyday Headline" webpage:
“"懟" means that one party deliberately finds fault
with the other person‘s behavior. ”
Others say it more positively: "Little 懟 stimulates small improvement ,
big 懟 makes big improvement, no 懟 then no improvement."
(reference URL: https://71a.xyz/gGVV60)
However, other meanings of the word "懟" include
scolding, criticizing, attacking, taunting, rebuking , refuting ...and so on.
The emotions enticed behind these actions are often not positive.
The original meaning of the word "懟" is resentment or hatred.
As Christians, should we “懟” each other? if so, what is the purpose?
Do we “懟” someone out of resentment or love? This is worth pondering.
The Bible provides us with guidance about speaking and coping (judging),
which we must learn and practice throughout our lives.
“When words are many, transgression is not lacking,
but whoever restrains his lips is prudent.”
Proverbs 10:19 ESV
“The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer,
but the mouth of the wicked pours out evil things.”
Proverbs 15:28 ESV
“There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts,
but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”
Proverbs 12:18 ESV
“Pride leads to conflict; those who take advice are wise.”
Proverbs 13:10 NLT
“If you listen to constructive criticism,
you will be at home among the wise.”
Proverbs 15:31 NLT
“Let all that you do be done in love.”
1 Corinthians 16:14 ESV
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