你理解嗎？/Do you get it?
人如果以自己所知的一點點就對事情下定論，
並以隨己意的標準強加自己的觀點到別人身上，難免顯露自己井底之蛙的狹隘，
如果對於連自身都沒有體驗過的事情，就否定經歷其中的人的實際感受，
就難免顯露自己沒有同理心的無知，以及對人缺乏憐憫關懷之心。
例如：一個從沒有經歷過何謂頭痛的人對正受偏頭痛之苦的人說：
「沒有頭痛這回事，我從來都沒有頭痛過，你心理作用吧！
你得找事情忙活，像我都沒有頭痛。」
如果還只喜歡自己誇誇其談，無心聽別人的話或不給別人說話的機會，
那麼就失去可交流與增加見聞的機會了！日常生活是如此更何況是屬靈生活呢！
神造人兩個耳朵，一張嘴是要我們「快快地聽，慢慢地說」。
“凡事謙虛、溫柔、忍耐，用愛心互相寬容，”
- 以弗所書 4:2
“到愚昧人面前， 不見他嘴中有知識。”
- 箴言 14:7
“愚昧的婦人喧嚷； 她是愚蒙，一無所知。”
- 箴言 9:13
“凡通達人都憑知識行事； 愚昧人張揚自己的愚昧。”
- 箴言 13:16
“你們要謹慎行事，不要像愚昧人，當像智慧人。”
- 以弗所書 5:15
“惟獨從上頭來的智慧，先是清潔，後是和平，
溫良柔順，滿有憐憫，多結善果，沒有偏見，沒有假冒。”
- 雅各書 3:17
If a person comes to a conclusion about things they know very little about,
they may impose their own view on others based on their own standards.
Such a person will inevitably reveal their narrow mindedness
just like the frog at the bottom of the well. If one has no experience with certain things,
he denies the experience and actual feelings of others.
This will inevitably reveal their lack of empathy, ignorance,
and lack of compassion and care for others.
For example: A person who has never experienced a headache before
said to someone suffering from migraine, "There is no such thing as a headache.
Since I have never had a headache, you must imagining it!
If you lived your life like I do, then you would never have headaches."
If a person only likes to talk about themselves, and they don't want to listen to others,
or give others the opportunity to speak, then they will lose the opportunity to fellowship,
and to increase their knowledge! We have to be careful of this in our daily lives,
but even more so in our spiritual lives! God created mankind with two ears,
and one mouth. It is meant for us to be "quick to listen and slow to speak."
“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient,
bearing with one another in love.”
- Ephesians 4:2 NIV
“Stay away from fools,
for you won’t find knowledge on their lips.”
- Proverbs 14:7 NLT
“The woman named Folly is brash.
She is ignorant and doesn’t know it.”
- Proverbs 9:13 NLT
“Wise people think before they act;
fools don’t—and even brag about their foolishness.”
- Proverbs 13:16 NLT
“So be careful how you live. Don’t live like fools,
but like those who are wise.”
- Ephesians 5:15 NLT
“But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure;
then peace-loving, considerate, submissive,
full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.”
- James 3:17 NIV
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